Consultations Page… Like Fantasy Football, everyone has a fantasy or a fetish… if you don't why are you here….


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The FYI's:
Yes I have a leather catsuit, yes it is uncomfortable!

I have no problems consulting with newbies but you need some idea of direction. I do not play guessing games.
I am couple/female friendly and will provide guidance and mentoring. If you are inquiring regarding your 25 year old girlfriend needing submissive mentoring and your 67…this is not My scene but if you want mentoring on Her Dominating you and she is 25 and your 67 I am very cool on that. Couples require a dinner/lunch initial meeting with both individuals being there, no surprises…
This not an advert for sexual companionship. Please don't call Me because you are looking for a MILT, wrong place.
The MASK is NOT Latex… wearing latex on ones head is nuts, unless you are bald and into pain and lube on your head!



Naughty Boys who need to be spanked, Foot Sluts, OlFactory Fetish and Business Men in Pantyhose Friendly you have found a home, more on that further down the page.


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your Madame loves to be worshipped, I love to be pampered, who doesn’t?
I am a True Goddess who is Mature with Beauty Brains and Brawn..
I love superb nylons and shoes, I have quite a foot, shoe and nylon fetish Myself, right up there with smelling Myself lol, nothing feels like Wolford's or full fashion non stretch nylons from Agent Provocateur or Secrets in Lace. I love Chanel Polish and only wear that brand.
When it comes to pantyhose I am well versed in the art of Fatal 15 and 50.

I have a vast assortment of vintage style lingerie, nylons, clothing, and shoes. This is what really gets Me going, it is all so visual...along with that I have a side that is edgy shall we say…you wanna buy Me a gift. I love gift certificates from www.TRASHYDIVA.com or www.Wolford.com or My all time beloved Bloomingdales where the lingerie flows… Do not get me a Secret in Lace GC's. I will and do wear their stockings but that is all that fits me properly, their lingerie is cut for larger proportioned folks. I am a size small in their stockings, not sure about their pantyhose. I am a medium in Wolford stockings.
I have outfits for
cross dressers and sissy maids... I have wigs, shoes, lingerie (soft silky stuff), sometimes I am amazed at how much of that “stuff” I have accumulated over the years.
I have a full length leather coat, catsuit with zippers, boots and latex boots...
no latex outfits. To travel with the leather suit or full boots you will provide a good faith deposit unless they are part of that tours Consultation Outfit. Please do not call and be shocked that I do not have leathers, boots, chains, whips, and Fur and My pet elephant with Me.

Now for the BDSM kinky stuff...
I pride Myself on My diverse training and Safe, Safe, Consensual discipline.  I am well seasoned in most aspects of BDSM and life. Take comfort in knowing, I do not do, what I do not like to do or better yet love to do or know how to do. When it comes to safety I check My ego at the door. What I need from you is your honesty on how much you want to be pushed….
I took several years off, during that time I  studied the discipline of BDSM, so I am not just a lady with a whip. I can be a real Devilish Domina or, a Lady who knows Her way around a good game of edgy play. I excel at specialized role plays which can be mild to extreme, My repertoire is varied from Mommy/Auntie to Interrogation, I am like the Wally World of Mature Kinky. Although I do not offer Medical Play, I do Have a real 1950-60 Nurse’s outfit  with the Hat...just like on
Dr. Kildare.
Yearly I attend a BDSM weekend in South Florida to learn new techniques and maintain and sharpen My BDSM skills. To that event I ALWAYS invite a favorite slave or two, which offers a lucky slut the chance to escape his normal life for a weekend or night and to be the slut slave he has always wanted to be in a safe environment.

I have lots of tools for boys in need of discipline and kink.  I can dish out some tasty Corporal Punishment or just a good old fashioned OTK spanking without Marks! for those of you that are unsure what OTK means , that is an over the knee spanking …Or a school boy paddling... I have all types of paddles and straps that will remind you of the old days. I also have quite an assortment of canes, and YES I do know how to use them.Pain sluts…
I want to make it perfectly clear I do not purport to be a Stern Evil Sadistic Dominatrix from the get go…(I gotta get warmed up to you, know your boundaries …) If you want Me to go total Sadistic Dom on you we will have at least one/two/three consultation, building to that. If you present yourself to Me as a sub or naughty school boy who needs a stern caning, OTK spanking or paddling that is fine and can be accomplished in our first time consultation. Please be aware due to weight restrictions I do not generally carry an crazy assortment of these implements But most times I never leave home without some form of paddle and cane.
I have an assortment of BDSM tools, bondage gear, rudimentary mummification equipment and skill, I can bound you down or shackle you. I have a LOT of STUFF; anything is possible EXCEPT what I said NO to at the top of this page. I have it all...I had a well equipped dungeon at one point and kept everything except the Saint Andrews Cross which was just to difficult to make disappear when Friends came over.
Domme in Training

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Aromatherapy
I am amazing, I have a special most wonderful body smell, I did not decide this, I have been repeatedly told this throughout the years, this is a specialty. I do charge extra in certain instances, please be aware that if you want me from the night before you better be at My cave early, if you want to meet for dinner without showering from the night before you compensate me for the day and that is a floating amount. This is truly My sport for which I was blessed with an incredible wonderful smell. I eat mostly organic, do not smoke cigarettes or drink. I smell so damn good, I love to smell Me, so I get it, I really do. I have broken up with lovers because of their body smell, right, you know what I mean, I am part of the Tribe lol.
Smelly feet I get it, this speciality does require a deposit if you make it complicated.

Sampling of Role Plays and ideas
Faux Fur Fetish
Goddess aka your Owner who needs to be Worshipped and pampered, (this is a favorite)
Nurturing Naughty Mommy or Naughty Auntie...another all time double Favorite! Can be jewish, Italian, or anglo
Bitchy Boss...
Role Play Boss
Principal with a paddle, REALLY Big Paddle, English paddles and frat paddles available :)
Hair pulling…
Prison Guard from Hell...
This is for My Black and Jewish boys...
Racial play is a specialty role play I love and feel very comfortable with; I even have shackles (deposit required, beast to travel with)... These role plays require advance planning.

I tailor your consultation to what you have told Me about you, sometimes it takes a few consultations to build the fantasy to where you have always wanted your fantasy to go,sometimes due to nerves, jet lag, and or the inability to communicate one's thoughts in a cohesive way scenarios do not go as smoothly or as mind blowing as you imagined. I do not claim to be 30 and to be able to shoot rockets out of My ears… If you are uptight i.e. non communicative or too many ideas are flowing out of you that nothing makes sense, it reflects in My ability to comprehend what you want. Two folks need to participate in this consultation without confusing directions or too many directions, I am not a video game. I do appreciate when My sub/My sweetboy/ My incompetent office boy provides Me with a scenario, but not when you act like a child hopped up on pixie sticks. Those of you that know this is you to a T, I gotcha you and I can handle your jumping from scene to scene but be advised I will sometimes reel you back in after you spin out, other times I like to watch the " topping subie" crash into the wall with too many thoughts and no path. For those of you that are thinking THAT IS me, that is me! I gotcha, just give me a consultation or 2-3 to get you all reined in.

Extreme role plays that need to be planned and researched require a non refundable deposit to ensure that there is no blowing of smoke up My Ass syndrome.
At this point I am not trained in Single Tail/Sounds/Branding, so I am unable to provide such sport.
If you want to bank role Me in being trained in Single Tail I have no problem with that. Just hope I don't poke My eye out. I will need safety googles.
NO CIGARETTE or CIGAR SMOKING/NO MEDICAL/SCAT/BLOOD/BREATH PLAY/INTENSE ELECTRICAL/DISFIGUREMENT/ NO Brutal Beatings : yeah, I know you will sign a disclaimer, not My scene.
Madame9 no longer owns any latex,except one pair of thigh hi Latex boots which could fall apart at any moment, it is most uncomfortable material in the world other than burlap, and very hard to maintain, but if you insist I will wear it for you. you buy…